Understanding Challenges
Many children waiting for families never received the early care that kids need to develop a strong sense of security, trust, and self-esteem. All children in care have experienced some form of abuse and/or neglect, and many suffer from conditions caused by past trauma, or prenatal exposure to alcohol or drugs. Choosing to adopt or foster a child with additional challenges or disabilities can be an extremely rewarding experience if prospective parents educate themselves, and honestly evaluate their desire and ability to successfully parent children with troubling pasts and uncertain futures. Here are resources to help you understand and overcome the challenges of adopting children from foster care, and conduct your own self-assessment to discover if you are among those able and willing to proceed with this type of adoption.
- Tips for Parenting the Adopted Older Child
- “Special Needs” Adoption: What Does it Mean?
- Tips on Adopting a Child with Special Needs
- Tips on Parenting the Child Who Has Been Sexually Abused
- Retrace Developmental Stages to Help Older Children Heal
- Creating Routines and Family Time – Tips for Foster and Adoptive Parents
- Lables are for Cans, Not Children
- What Special Needs Are You Open To?
- Adopting a Child With Special Needs from About.com
- Special Needs Adoption from Comeunity.com
- The Effect of Substance Abuse on Children
- Attachment Disorder: Diagnosis and Treatment – ATTACh.org video


