Recommended Reads
Essential books recommended by the NYS Citizens’ Coalition for Children for foster/adoptive families and anyone else who can benefit from a greater understanding of adoption and foster care. A portion of books purchased through Amazon via our website links will benefit NYSCCC. Just click on one of the following titles to purchase a copy and Amazon will automatically send a donation to NYSCCC.
Adoption Books
- Adopting the Hurt Child: Hope for Families with Special-Needs Kids
by Gregory C. Keck & Regina Kupecky
- Adopting The Older Child by Claudia L. Jewett
- Attaching in Adoption: Practical Tools for Today’s Parents
by Deborah D. Gray- Being Adopted: The Lifelong Search for Self
by David Brodzinsky, Ph.D., Marshall Schechter, M.D. and Robin Hening
- Beneath the Mask: Understanding Adopted Teens by Debbie Riley
- Brothers and Sisters in Adoption
by Arleta M. James
- Helping Children Cope with Separation and Loss, Revised Edition
by Claudia L. Jewett Jarratt
- Nurturing Adoptions: Creating Resilience After Neglect and Trauma by Deborah D. Gray Perspectives Press, 2007
- Parenting Adopted Adolescents: Understanding and Appreciating Their Journeys
by Gregory C. Keck- Parenting the Hurt Child: Helping Adoptive Families Heal and Grow
by Gegory C. Keck- Parenting Your Adopted Older Child: How to Overcome the Unique Challenges and Raise a Happy and Healthy Child
by Brenda McCreight, Ph.D.- Parenting Your Adopted Older Child: How to Overcome the Unique Challenges and Raise a Happy and Healthy Child
by Lois Ruskai Melina- Real Parents, Real Children: Parenting the Adopted Child
by Holly van Gulden and Lisa M. Bartels-Rabb- Telling the Truth to Your Adopted or Foster Child: Making Sense of the Past
by Betsy E.Keefer and Jayne E. Schooler- The Family of Adoption: Completely Revised and Updated
by Joyce Maguire Pavao- The Open Adoption Experience – A Complete Guide for Adoptive and Birth Families
by Lois Ruskai Molina- Twenty Things Adopted Kids Wish Their Adoptive Parents Knew
by Sherrie Eldridge- Wounded Children, Healing Homes by Jayne E. Schooler, Betsy Keefer Smalley, and Timothy J. Callahan, Psy.D.
Foster Care Books
- A Child’s Journey Through Placement
by Vera I. Fahlberg, M.D.
- Another Mother: Co-Parenting with the Foster Care System
by Sarah Gerstenzang
- A Guide to Foster Parenting: Everything But the Kids!
by Mary Anne Goodearle, M.S.,
- A Guidebook for Raising Foster Children
by Susan McNair Blatt, M.D. -
- The Heart Knows Something Different: Teenage Voices from the Foster Care System
by Al Desetta
- Families Change: A Book for Children Experiencing Termination of Parental Rights
by Julie Nelson
- Kids Need to Be Safe: A Book for Children in Foster Care
by Julie Nelson
- The Lost Children of Wilder: The Epic Struggle to Change Foster Care
by Nina Bernstein
- Maybe Days: A Book for Children in Foster Care
by Jennifer Wilgocki
- Parenting Someone Else’s Child
by Ann Stressman
- Building A Bridge: Stories About Connections Between Parents and Foster Parents from Youth Communication
Memoirs/Personal Stories
- Wanting a Child
by Jill Bialosky
- Somebody’s Someone: A Memoir
by Regina Louise
- Be My Baby
by Susan Anderson
- Tender Mercies: Inside the World of a Child Abuse Investigator
by Keith N. Richards
- Life for Me Ain’t Been No Crystal Stair: One Family’s Passage Through the Child Welfare System
by Susan Sheehan
- Jesus Land: A Memoir
by Julia Scheeres
- Three Little Words: A Memoir
by Ashely Rhodes Courter
- Black Baby White Hands: A View from the Crib
by Jaija John
Multi-Cultural Families
- Of Many Colors: Portraits of Multiracial Families
by Gigi Kaeser and Peggy Gillespe
- Black White Other Biracial Americans
by Lise Funderberg
- I’m Chocolate, You’re Vanilla: Raising Healthy Black and Biracial Children in a Race-Conscious World
by Marguerite A. Wright
- Boys Into Men: Raising Our African American Teenage Sons
by Nancy Boyd-Franklin
- Outsiders Within: Writing on Transracial Adoption
Edited by Jane Jeong Tranka
- Inside Transracial Adoption by Gail Steinberg
Wanting a Daughter, Needing a Son: Abandonment, Adoption, and Orphanage Care in China
by Kay Ann Johnson
- Half and Half: Writers on Growing Up Biracial and Bicultural
by Claudine O’Hearn
Last modified: January 5, 2010


